Is it bad to miss talking to someone so much? Even if you have spoken to them a day or two ago…

Do I still cross your mind? Or am I just a faint memory in the world you live in. Do you still look back and reminisce like me? Everyone says there will be another person that will be even better. But, to be honest, I don’t think that is true. I think I lost the thing that meant the most to me.

So…confusing situation. So, my uncle and my dad decide to get a house for me and my cousin along with a few friends in the beginning of the year. My friend, who’s family is in financial trouble, decides that his uncle wants to buy a house near the college I go to. He asks us to put our full trust to him in finding a house for everyone. So my uncle and my dad decide to back off because they have other things to worry about and since my friend took over the responsibility of finding a house… So, he has the house, doing renovation, hasn’t closed escrow yet… the confusing part was…two groups…well three people total have shown that they don’t trust him…and that he has a very difficult time dispelling mistrust. Once with relationship drama, the other with booking a room for a Las Vegas trip. I don’t know whether or not to trust this friend. Yet our mutual friend stands by him 100% and demands me to do the same and says “if that’s the way you treat your friends, then i’m very disappointed”. 

I want to protect my cousin whether or not this friend can or cannot be trusted. But, it seems as if I run into problem after problem whenever it comes to this friend. Would you still want to live under the same roof as this friend? Another question is…if his family was under financial stress…why did he decide he would buy the house for us when my family was already searching? Buying a $180,000 4 bedroom house with 1.75 bathrooms and a detached garage that can fit a trailer when under financial stress is difficult to apprehend. When I asked him, why don’t my parents help out if money would be an issue, he responded well when it is time to sell the house…who gets the profit? I can’t tell whether he is trying to make money or is he really genuine and wanted to just get a house so that his friends can have a place to stay next year…